RElationship Therapy

You don't have to be in crisis to want more.

Maybe you love each other. You communicate reasonably well. Your relationship is fundamentally solid.

And yet, something about your sex life isn't working the way you'd like.

Maybe one of you wants sex more often. Maybe desire has become something you negotiate rather than something you feel. Maybe you've stopped initiating because rejection hurts. Maybe sex has become predictable, pressured, or disconnected from the rest of your relationship.

Or maybe nothing is particularly “wrong”—you simply want more play, erotic energy, curiosity, and pleasure.

I work with queer couples who are fundamentally committed to one another but feel stuck around sex, desire, intimacy, or connection.

You might be navigating:

  • Different levels of desire

  • Difficulty initiating or talking about sex

  • Sex that has become routine or disconnected

  • Feeling rejected or pressured around sex

  • Changes in desire over the course of a relationship

  • Difficulty accessing erotic energy or play

  • Questions about sexual identity or orientation

  • Opening a relationship or navigating consensual non-monogamy

  • Wanting to feel closer emotionally and sexually

You don't need to be on the verge of breaking up to come to couples therapy.

Sometimes the relationship is good—and you want to make it better.

We'll work together to understand the patterns between you, create more safety and honesty around vulnerable conversations, and make room for the kind of intimacy and erotic connection you're actually looking for.

Let's Talk

Relationship therapy is for any constellation of relationship (couples/dyads, triads, polycules, families with children, and more) seeking increased ability to see, hear, and deeply understand each other. Therapy can help nourish, heal, or strengthen your connections.

Common areas of focus:

  • Improving communication

  • Building skills in conflict management

  • Increasing connection, vulnerability, and understanding

  • Increasing intimacy and sexual connection

  • Defining relationship values and developing a shared vision for the future

  • Addressing challenges emerging from breaches of trust, trauma, loss, and more

Note: Currently I am only seeing individuals 18 and over.